Yang Kamu Maksud "Bahagia"

ketika apa yang kamu lihat di sekelilingmu belum pernah kamu dapetin, dan kamu pikir itu amazing, ketika kamu pikir 'bahagia' itu semua yang bersifat kesenangan, ketika kamu ngerasa 'bahagia' itu tanpa beban, ketika kamu yakin 'bahagia' itu is nothing to escape, maka sebenernya kamu SALAH!
Karena bahagia itu adalah , state of mind...

He Always be There

If you ask me about love
And wanna know about it
I am so pleased
It’s everything about Allah
The pure love, to our soul
The creator of you and me,the heaven and whole universe
The ONE that made us all
And HE’s the guardian of HIS true believers

So when the time is hard
There’s no way to turn
As HE promise HE will always be there
To bless us with HIS love and HIS mercy
Coz, as HE promise HE will always be there
HE’s always watching us, guiding us
And HE knows what’s in all in our heart

So when you lose your way
To Allah you should turn
As HE promise HE will always be there…

HE bring ourselves from the darkness into the light
Subhanallah praise belongs to YOU for everything
Shouldn’t never feel afraid of anything
As long as we follow HIS guidance all the way
Through the short time we have in this life
Soon it all’ll be over
And we’ll be in His heaven and we’ll all be fine

So when the time gets hard
There’s no way to turn
As HE promise He will always be there
To bless us with HIS love and HIS mercy
Coz, as HE promise HE will always be there
HE’s always watching us, guiding us
And HE knows what’s in all in our heart

So when you lose your way
To Allah you should turn
As HE promise HE will always be there…

Allahu Akbar (many times)

So when the time gets hard
There’s no way to turn
As HE promise He will always be there
To bless us with HIS love and HIS mercy
Coz, as HE promise HE will always be there
HE’s always watching us, guiding us
And he knows what’s in all in our heart

So when you lose your way
To Allah you should turn
As HE promise HE will always be there…

Allahu Akbar (many times)

Insya Allah

NO one could feel so helpless through this complicated world 'cuz Allah ta'ala is always by our side. Forever.
in the light and in the dark.
in our happiness and our sadness either.
He always be there.
Watching us and being the truth guardian.
so, don't lose your hold...
don't ever lose it all...

Every time you feel like you cannot go on
You feel so lost and that you’re so alone
All you see is night
And darkness all around
You feel so helpless you can’t see which way to go

Don’t despair and never loose hope
Coz Allah is always by your side
Insha’Allah Insha’Allah Insha’Allah
You’ll find your way
Insha’Allah Insha’Allah Insha’Allah
You’ll find your way

Every time you commit one more mistake
You feel you can’t repent
And that it’s way too late
You’re so confuse
Wrong decisions you have made
Haunt your mind and your heart is full of shame

Don’t despair and never loose hope
Coz Allah is always by your side
Insha’Allah Insha’Allah Insha’Allah
You’ll find your way
Insha’Allah Insha’Allah Insha’Allah
You’ll find your way

Turn to Allah
He’s never far away
Put your trust in Him
Raise your hands and pray
Oohh Ya Allah
Guide my steps don’t let me go astray
You’re the only one who can show me the way

Show me the way
Show me the way
Show me the way

Insha’Allah Insha’Allah Insha’Allah
We’ll find our way
Insha’Allah Insha’Allah Insha’Allah
We’ll find our way
Insha’Allah Insha’Allah Insha’Allah
You’ll find your way

Cinta adalah...

ketika tak ada lagi tudung yang disampirkan
oleh sebilah wajah penuh cinta
dari diri seorang Hawa, hamba Allah yang soleha
kepada sang Adam, yang cintanya disucikan karena ridha sang Maha Cinta

ketika keduanya berjanji dalam suka dan duka
ketika keduanya menjadi mempelai suci di hari bahagia
karena dari mereka, cinta Allah tersampaikan

cinta adalah...

pinangan suci yang memuliakan akhlak dan menyempurnakan iman
sebagai sepasang hamba yang betaqwa dan berserah diri
kepada mereka Allah titipkan cinta yang suci

Sekuntum Cinta Untuk Sang Khalik

Sekantung Embun

Sesungguhnya Cintaku Hanya Milik Allah

I love so much my heart is sure,

As time goes on I love you more,

Your happy smile,Your loving face

No one will ever take your place..

When it rains, you dont see the sun, but its there

Hope we can be like that

We dont always see each other

but we will always be there for one another.

Killing Time

These I put my secret combination of myself :

1. My Natural Habit

-Sering bangun kesiangan dan nggak sholat subuh^^"

-Suka nggak jelas dan autis pada saat-saat tertentu

-Sangat tertarik pada hal-hal unik dan nggak umum

-Book worm

-Make up freak

-Jahil

-Punya banyak kegiatan yg bikin aku jadi 'turis' di rumah sendiri

-The best listener

-Smart Oriented

-Nggak bisa multi tasking

-Messy up!

-Pecinta kerupuk dan salad buah

-Menyukai segala sesuatu yg imajiner

-Perfect features

-Fashion lover

-Ngefans buanget sama Rihanna

2. My Ambition

-Paris, Venesia, New York, Wakatobi^^

-Pengen gemukin badan sampe 50 kg

-Jadi penulis sukses

-Jadi pengusaha sukses

-Punya jam terbang tinggi sampe ke luar negri

-Bisa umroh sekeluarga

-Dapet jodoh seganteng nabi Yusuf AS dan berakhlak semulia baginda Rasul

-Pengen punya yayasan sosial

-Pengen punya clothing line. Udah punya merk sendiri : overDosis and Chocolietta

3. My Anticipated Gadget Stuff

-Kamera Canon DSLR

-Dell core 2

-iPhone 4

-iPhone shuffle 16GB

4. Wardrobe

-Zara

-Hermes

-Top Shop

-Endorse

-Roxy

apa lagi yaaah??? hmmm....

My Best Friend and I : Friendship needs no words...

There are many people
that we meet in our lives
but only a very few
will make a lasting impression
on our minds and hearts
It is these people that we will
think of often
and who will always remain
important to us
as true friends

Sophie with her boyfriend :

The Penguin Couple and Me on Cinderella's Birthday

Ngga ada yg paling menyenangkan selain ngeliat orang yg kita sayang lagi happy atau ngelakuin sesuatu yg berarti buat mereka. Kayak ultah bff (best friend forever) si sophie yg ke 22, aku ngerasa kita berdua turns sooooo old in this age :c
so yeah, begitu banyak detik2 yg kita lewati, and in every single second, there are so many meaningful things, in and out. well, i don't know how does it feels, without having a thousands time and count it one by one (tp kyaknya kurang kerjaan juga sih kalo bawaannya pengen ngelamun trus)^^"

daaaaan, di hari spesialnya itu, sovi lebih milih untuk jalan bertiga bareng aku sama koko ferry. kenapa juga sih mesti ngajak aku? sumpah ngga enak bgt jd obat nyamuk gitu. tapi tu anak katanya ngga tega ngeliat aku tersudut tanpa arti (HALAH) di rumah sambil maen solitaire kayak orang hopeless T.TRasanya ngiri banget waktu ngeliat moment ini :



Ya Allah, apakah aku masih punya alesan untuk berkata dunia ini adil??? (ngambek)
OOO, WHY ME??? T.T = feeling sooooo freaking jealous with those picture. they are so in love and i'm alone,, taking photograph..did they noticed me????????

after that sentimental moment, we went to Batu Night Spectacular and got the heavy rainy there. bayangin deh, udah dibela-belain ke sana hujan2 eeeh tau2 ujan deres. terpaksa nunggu lama deh di mobil.

nunggu dan nunggu, hujannya malah makin eksis, ya udah, nekat aja akhirnya masuk ke dalam.
pengennya sih maenin smua wahana yg ada di situ. tapi karna keadaan ngga memungkinkan, ujung-ujungnya cuma makan di food court trus foto-foto narsis di taman lampion :c


it just my small story, aaand feel not complete without sharina in here...
Figure me out!

I believe...

I believe the sun should never set upon an argument
I believe we place our happiness in other people's hands I believe that junk food tastes so good because it's bad for you
I believe your parents did the best job they knew how to do
I believe that beauty magazines promote low self esteem
I believe I'm loved when I'm completely by myself alone 
I believe in Karma what you give is what you get returned
I believe you can't appreciate real love until you've been burned
I believe the grass is no more greener on the other side
I believe you don't know what you've got until you say goodbye
I believe you can't control or choose your sexuality
I believe that trust is more important than monogamy
I believe your most attractive features are your heart and soul
 I believe that family is worth more than money or gold
I believe the struggle for financial freedom is unfair
I believe the only ones who disagree are millionaires 
I believe in Karma what you give is what you get returned
I believe you can't appreciate real love until you've been burned
I believe the grass is no more greener on the other side
I believe you don't know what you've got until you say goodbye
I believe forgiveness is the key to your unhappiness
I believe that wedded bliss negates the need to be undressed
 I believe that God does not endorse TV evangelists
I believe in love surviving death into eternity
I believe in Karma what you give is what you get returned
 I believe you can't appreciate real love until you've been burned
I believe the grass is no more greener on the other side
I believe you don't know what you've got until you say goodbye 

ps : my favorite lyrics lately^^

Angel of Dream

a bunch happiness from heart

Dear Allah,

Thank you for allowing me to have a wonderful relationship with and support from my parents.
Thank you for all the friends you bring into my life, I am glad that my number of friends always keep increasing. Thank you for giving me the strength and patience in responding to all the challenges I had to face. Thank you for all the opportunities given, because of You I finally had the courage to do what I have been wanting to do. Thank you for keeping everyone I love healthy, including myself as well. And thank you for up...
Thank you for having been with me, virtually and in real life, since the very first born...
It's funny how life gets around, but I am glad you were all there with me. I hope I have been a good person for you all, and I also hope I have contributed a part in your life. Together we are strong...:)

Penghianatan Selamanya Tak Termaafkan

YOU SHOULD TO KNOW THAT I NEVER LET YOU BACK IN, DUDE!!!

say what???
u told me that you guilty?
owh, what a nice jokes!! i love it...!

some 'nothing' that coming from God...

*Grown-ups love figures. When you tell them that you have made a new friend, they never ask you any questions about essential matters. They never say to you, "What does his voice sound like? What games does he love best? Does he collect butterflies?" Instead, they demand: "How old is he? How many brothers has he? How much does he weigh? How much money does his father make?" Only from these figures do they think they have learned anything about him. * Though the circular round-and-round of routine be the bulk of life's affairs, make an occasional jutting diversion - of fun, love, or something that will outlast you - so the shape and motion of your life shall resemble the round lifegiving sun with bright rays shining forth from all directions.

* Have courage for the great sorrows of life and patience for the small ones; and when you have laboriously accomplished your daily task, go to sleep in peace.

My New Photo (edit)

Facebookku Keblokir secara MISTERIUS part 1

berasa nggak lulus ujian paling penting sedunia, (maksudnya SHOCK nya) waktu account fb qu ga bisa dibuka..padahal email n password dah bner smua.. T.T higzzzz
padahal temenku uda ribuan n hampir smuanya kenal...(yaaa skitar 40% emg temen bneran bukan temen ALAY)
Tp skrg,,aku ngerasa kehilangan mreka smua n trpksa harus bikin account baru lagi...dan hrz ng add satu2 lg..huaaaaaaaa....
bayangin aja, smua voto2 narsisku, notes yg jumlahnya dah puluhan, posting blog (yg ini) smuanya lari ke situ tp skrg hanya tinggal nama...
ugh, males bgt hrs ngulang lg...

-bad day

Women and Her Faith

Spiritual Equality of Women and Men

Allah has got ready forgiveness and tremendous rewards for the Muslim men and women; the believing men and women; the devout men and women; the truthful men and women; the patiently suffering men and women; the humble men and women; the almsgiving men and women; the fasting men and women, the men and women who guard their chastity; and the men and women who are exceedingly mindful of Allah. (Al-Ahzab 33:35)

Attitudes towards women
O ye who believe! Ye are forbidden to inherit women against their will. Nor should ye treat them with harshness, that ye may take away part of the dower ye have given them,-except where they have been guilty of open lewdness; on the contrary live with them on a footing of kindness and equity. If ye take a dislike to them it may be that ye dislike a thing, and Allah brings about through it a great deal of good. (An-Nisa 4:19)

Collaboration and consultation
The believing men and women, are associates and helpers of each other. They (collaborate) to promote all that is beneficial and discourage all that is evil; to establish prayers and give alms, and to obey Allah and his Messenger. Those are the people whom Allah would grant mercy. Indeed Allah is Mighty and Wise. (Al-Taubah 9:71)

Examples of Consensual Decision Making
If both spouses decide, by mutual consent and consultation, on weaning [their baby], there is no blame on either. If you want to have your babies breastfed by a foster mother you are not doing anything blame-worthy provided you pay to the fostermother what you had agreed to offer, in accordance with the established manner. Fear Allah and know that Allah is aware it what you are doing". (Al-Baqarah, 2:233)

Women's Right to Attend Mosques
Narrated Ibn Umar: The Prophet (p.b.u.h) said, "Allow women to go to the Mosques at night." (Bukhari Volume 2, Book 13, Number 22)

Narrated Ibn Umar: One of the wives of Umar (bin Al-Khattab) used to offer the Fajr and the 'Isha' prayer in congregation in the Mosque. She was asked why she had come out for the prayer as she knew that Umar disliked it, and he has great ghaira (self-respect). She replied, "What prevents him from stopping me from this act?" The other replied, "The statement of Allah's Apostle (p.b.u.h) : 'Do not stop Allah's women-slave from going to Allah s Mosques' prevents him." (Bukhari Volume 2, Book 13, Number 23)

Ibn 'Umar reported: Grant permission to women for going to the mosque in the night. His son who was called Waqid said: Then they would make mischief. He (the narrator) said: He thumped his (son's) chest and said: I am narrating to you the hadith of the Messenger of Allah (may peace be upon him), and you say: No! (Sahih Muslim Book 004, Number 0890)

Ibn Umar reported: The Messenger of Allah (may peace be upon him) said: Do not deprive women of their share of the mosques, when they seek permission from you. Bilal said: By Allah, we would certainly prevent them. 'Abdullah said: I say that the Messenger of Allah (may peace be upon him) said it and you say: We would certainly prevent them! (Sahih Muslim Book 004, Number 0891)

Yahya related to me from Malik from Yahya ibn Said that Atika bint Zayd ibn Amr ibn Nufayl, the wife of Umar ibn al-Khattab, used to ask Umar ibn al-Khattab for permission to go to the mosque. He would keep silent, so she would say, "By Allah, I will go out, unless you forbid me," and he would not forbid her. (Sunan Abu Dawud Book 14, Number 14.5.14)

The Common Performance of Ablutions
Narrated Ibn Umar: "It used to be that men and women would perform ablutions together in the time of the Messenger of Allah's assembly." (Bukhari: 1: Ch. 45, Book of Ablution)

Women's Right of Proposal
Narrated Sahl: A woman came to the Prophet, and presented herself to him (for marriage). He said, "I am not in need of women these days." Then a man said, "O Allah's Apostle! Marry her to me." The Prophet asked him, "What have you got?" He said, "I have got nothing." The Prophet said, "Give her something, even an iron ring." He said, "I have got nothing." The Prophet asked (him), "How much of the Quran do you know (by heart)?" He said, "So much and so much." The Prophet said, "I have married her to you for what you know of the Quran." (Bukhari Volume 7, Book 62, Number 72)

Women's Right of Permission
Narrated Abu Huraira: The Prophet said, "A matron should not be given in marriage except after consulting her; and a virgin should not be given in marriage except after her permission." The people asked, "O Allah's Apostle! How can we know her permission?" He said, "Her silence (indicates her permission)." (Bukhari Volume 7, Book 62, Number 67)

Narrated Khansa bint Khidam Al-Ansariya that her father gave her in marriage when she was a matron and she disliked that marriage. So she went to Allah's Apostle and he declared that marriage invalid. (Bukhari Volume 7, Book 62, Number 69)

The Right of Women not to be Forced
Narrated Ibn 'Abbas: Barira's husband was a slave called Mughith, as if I am seeing him now, going behind Barira and weeping with his tears flowing down his beard. The Prophet said to 'Abbas, "O 'Abbas ! are you not astonished at the love of Mughith for Barira and the hatred of Barira for Mughith?" The Prophet then said to Barira, "Why don't you return to him?" She said, "O Allah's Apostle! Do you order me to do so?" He said, "No, I only intercede for him." She said, "I am not in need of him." (Bukhari: Volume 7, Book 63, Number 206)

Asserting Women's Rights
Ibn Al-Jauzi narrated the virtues and merits of Umar bin Al-Khattab (Allah bless him) in the following words: Umar forbade the people from paying excessive dowries and addressed them saying: "Don't fix the dowries for women over forty ounces. If ever that is exceeded I shall deposit the excess amount in the public treasury". As he descended from the pulpit, a flat-nosed lady stood up from among the women audience, and said: "It is not within your right". Umar asked: "Why should this not be of my right?" she replied: "Because Allah has proclaimed: 'even if you had given one of them (wives) a whole treasure for dowry take not the least bit back. Would you take it by false claim and a manifest sin'". (Al Nisa, 20). When he heard this, Umar said: "The woman is right and the man (Umar) is wrong. It seems that all people have deeper insight and wisdom than Umar". Then he returned to the pulpit and declared: "O people, I had restricted the giving of more than four hundred dirhams in dowry. Whosoever of you wishes to give in dowry as much as he likes and finds satisfaction in so doing may do so". quoted in: "On the Position and Role of Women in Islam and Islamic Society"

Seeking advice and comfort
Narrated 'Aisha (the mother of the faithful believers): ... Then Allah's Apostle returned with the Inspiration and with his heart beating severely. Then he went to Khadija bint Khuwailid and said, "Cover me! Cover me!" They covered him till his fear was over and after that he told her everything that had happened and said, "I fear that something may happen to me." Khadija replied, "Never! By Allah, Allah will never disgrace you. You keep good relations with your kith and kin, help the poor and the destitute, serve your guests generously and assist the deserving calamity-afflicted ones." Khadija then accompanied him to her cousin Waraqa bin Naufal bin Asad bin 'Abdul 'Uzza ... (Bukhari Volume 1, Book 1, Number 3)

The Characteristics of a Believing Man
Narrated AbuHurayrah: Allah's Messenger (pbuh) said: a believing man should not hate a believing woman; if he dislikes one of her characteristics, he will be pleased with another. (Muslim Book 8, Number 3469)

The Education of Women
Narrated Abu Said: A woman came to Allah's Apostle and said, "O Allah's Apostle! Men (only) benefit by your teachings, so please devote to us from (some of) your time, a day on which we may come to you so that you may teach us of what Allah has taught you." Allah's Apostle said, "Gather on such-and-such a day at such-and-such a place." They gathered and Allah's Apostle came to them and taught them of what Allah had taught him. (Bukhari Volume 9, Book 92, Number 413)

On the Treatment of Women
Narrated Mu'awiyah al-Qushayri: I went to the Apostle of Allah (pbuh) and asked him: "What do you say (command) about our wives?" He replied: "Give them food what you have for yourself, and clothe them by which you clothe yourself, and do not beat them, and do not revile them." (Sunan Abu Dawud: Book 11, Number 2139) "The best of you is one who is best towards his family and I am best towards the family". (At-Tirmithy). "None but a noble man treats women in an honourable manner. And none but an ignoble treats women disgracefully". (At-Tirmithy).

A Husband must keep the Privacy of his Wife
Narrated AbuSa'id al-Khudri: Allah's Messenger (peace_be_upon_him) said: The most wicked among the people in the eye of Allah on the Day of Judgement is the man who goes to his wife and she comes to him, and then he divulges her secret. (Muslim Book 8, Number 3369)

A Husband's Attitude
'Umar ibn al-Khattab (RA) said that a man came to his house to complain about his wife. On reaching the door of his house, he hears 'Umar's wife shouting at him and reviling him. Seeing this, he was about to go back, thinking that 'Umar himself was in the same position and, therefore, could hardly suggest any solution for his problem. 'Umar (RA) saw the man turn back, so he called him and enquired about the purpose of his visit. He said that he had come with a complaint against his wife, but turned back on seeing the Caliph in the same position. 'Umar (RA) told him that he tolerated the excesses of his wife for she had certain rights against him. He said, "Is it not true that she prepares food for me, washes clothes for me and suckles my children, thus saving me the expense of employing a cook, a washerman and a nurse, though she is not legally obliged in any way to do any of these things? Besides, I enjoy peace of mind because of her and am kept away from indecent acts on account of her. I therefore tolerate all her excesses on account of these benefits. It is right that you should also adopt the same attitude." quoted in Rahman, Role of Muslim Women page 149

The Prophet's Disapproval of Women Beaters
Patient behavior was the practice of the Prophet, even when his wife dared to address him harshly. Once his mother-in-law- saw her daughter strike him with her fist on his noble chest. When the enraged mother -in-law began to reproach her daughter, the Prophet smilingly said, "Leave her alone; they do worse than that." And once Abu Bakr, his father-in-law, was invited to settle some misunderstanding between him and Aishah. The Prophet said to her, "Will you speak, or shall I speak?" Aisha said, "You speak, but do not say except the truth." Abu Bakr was so outraged that he immediately struck her severely, forcing her to run and seek protection behind the back of the Prophet. Abu Bakr said, "O you the enemy of herself! Does the Messenger of Allah say but the truth?" The Prophet said, "O Abu Bakr, we did not invite you for this [harsh dealing with Aishah], nor did we anticipate it." quoted in: Mutual Rights and Obligations

And Allah (swt) knows best.

Why do Moslem women wear the hijab?

Discussion Points for young people

1. Is it okay to ask questions about the customs of another culture? Why might that be a frightening thing to do?

2. Why do some Muslim women choose to wear the hijab? Why do some choose not to?

3. How is the hijab a form of liberation for the women who choose to wear it? How is it a form of constraint?

4. How does the hijab provide a woman with an identity? Why might a Muslim woman want her religious beliefs to show up-front?

5. What does the need for the hijab suggest about the Muslim view of men? Why has its purpose been misunderstood?

6. Syed says that people evaluate her on the basis of who she is when she wears her hijab, not on her beauty or her clothing. But, she also says, that people sometimes assume that she is stupid, or doesn't speak English well, based on her choice of dress. Does the hijab free a young woman from one form of oppression only to put her in the path of another?

7. In your opinion, does the hijab successfully address the problem of the over-emphasising of women's bodies that Hussein describes in her article? Is a woman's voice stronger if her body is veiled?

8. Does the legal right to go topless empower women or degrade them?

resound

make sure that my blog is still exist although i never check it since i was sooo damn busy lately ^^"